Immerse yourself in the culture!

When you travel, its hard to get break free of your own ways, step out of your comfort zone, walk in and speak a different language than you do daily, but the rewards of your efforts can be remarkable. I have traveled to the top of Stockholm down to the Almafi coast side in Italy but when you are wandering down a typical cobblestone drizzled alley and the owner of his restaurant or the street vendor; who (fortunately isn't like the U.S.) is selling his merchandise with such pride, its hard to turn away. When you travel "turning away" is a gesture of being uncomfortable, the unwillingness to see through another perspective, try a delicacy that is true to the heart and soul of that town. Much of European towns; especially Italy, wear their heart & soul and pride on their sleeves. Traveling along souvenir and ceramic lined shops or lemon soaked stalls selling their prized limoncello, immerse yourself with that culture. More times than not; as you wander and stumble; you fall upon a food paradise or lively entertainment. These people who are performing; they are selling their culinary craft or music in which they live and breathe aren't in the streets to gain sympathy. They are spotted polishing their craft, whatever it may be.
As an American; I have fortunately learned to adapt. Adapt to the sounds, the town speed, its pride and joy, they respected time of "shutdown". The hardworking families that most Americans encounter along the way aren't gearing up for a performance; but living their life. As a well minded American and traveler; respect their behavior, their way of life. They appreciate tourists recognizing the town that means so much, but they aren't their for your entertainment. Just a thought you might have of next time you want to capture a moment in your travels because that vendor appreciates the kind gestures, more than you may think.